
It was near the end of my spelling test in elementary school. Once again I looked down at what I had written on my paper for word number seven: “O-N-O-R.” I read it back to myself quietly. It sounded right but something was missing, I was sure!
Time was running out. I closed my eyes tight and tried hard to remember what it should look like. All the correct sounds were there, so what was I missing? I took several frantic glances around the room for any spark of “inspiration,” but soon resorted back to silence and intense thought. Silence! That was it! I knew what was missing: a silent letter. I had skipped the very first part!
Without delay I added the letter and read it again: “HONOR.” Yes, that was it!
Honor is important (and not just for elementary test grades). Do you want to know how to please God? Find out what pleases the Lord. Find out with a relationship with Him. Obeying your parents pleases the Lord. Honoring your parents pleases the Lord (See Colossians 3:20). This “honoring” looks different during different seasons of your life—as a child, as a young adult, as a married man or woman. But the heart of this commandment remains intact throughout all our years.
The fifth commandment, “honor your mother and father,” is the first commandment with a promised attached, “so that you may live long on the earth” (Eph. 6:1-3). We want to have a long life, for things to go well for us, to bring delight to the Lord, and to receive God’s grace. But have we skipped the first part?
“Likewise, ye younger, submit yourselves unto the elder. Yea, all of you be subject one to another, and be clothed with humility: for God resisteth the proud, and giveth grace to the humble. Humble yourselves therefore under the mighty hand of God, that he may exalt you in due time: casting all your care upon him; for he careth for you” (I Peter 5:5–7).
The Bates Family

